SAFETY HANDBOOK
About Safety at
Smoke With Me
We truly care about your safety, now and always!
The Smoke With Me App is committed to
equipping our vibrant global community with the
essential tools for a secure and enjoyable dating
adventure. Let's make your journey safe and fun
together!
We acknowledge that online dating can present
certain challenges; however, our primary focus
remains on facilitating and promoting positive connections, regardless of individual preferences. Through our
dedicated Safety Center, innovative tools, and comprehensive dating guides, we empower users to take charge of
their dating experiences. Our objective is to ensure that individuals maintain a dating environment that is
healthy,
positive, and enjoyable.1
2Our core values are the foundation of everything we do.
We prioritize Kindness, embrace Respect, and champion
Inclusivity in all our
efforts.
These principles empower us to create a positive and impactful environment for
everyone.
At SmokeWithMe, we believe in creating a supportive and welcoming community! We hold each other
accountable to ensure everyone enjoys a positive experience free from hate, aggression, and bullying. We take
reports seriously, not just within our app but also about any concerning behavior that might happen
off-platform.
Our commitment to safety means we happily enforce bans for any harmful actions reported, regardless of where
they occur. Together, we can foster a respectful and enjoyable environment for all!
Our Trust & Safety Team 3
Our dedicated Member Safety Team ensures that SmokeWithMe members can have a safe experience with our
product. We’re focused on preventing unsafe incidents from occurring and providing a trauma-informed,
empathetic response to members in the unfortunate circumstance that something happens. We’re responsible for
developing policies and standards that promote responsible, safe, inclusive, and respectful behavior across our
application. You can reach out to our safety team through the app by clicking on any emoji shield.
SmokeWithMe App Safety Features 4
Age Verification + Photo Verification
SmokeWithMe members must upload a government or stateissued passport or I.D Proving
both their age and their likeness
are authentic.
Block and Report
If a SmokeWithMe member feels uncomfortable or unsafe, they can use our block and report feature at any time.
Once a member blocks someone, that user will no longer be able to send them messages. Additionally, reports are
submitted anonymously, so the reported user will not know who flagged their account
Unmatch
The unmatch feature within the SmokeWithMe application can be accessed by navigating to a user's profile page
and selecting the “Remove” button. This feature is available for use at any time. When a member unmatches
another user, the individual will no longer be visible in the connections list of the member and will be unable to
send direct messages to them moving forward.
Invisible Mode
As a premium member of SmokeWithMe, you have the option to temporarily conceal your account if you require
privacy from public visibility. This feature allows you to continue browsing other profiles while maintaining a
discreet online presence. Premium members of SmokeWithMe, have the option to temporarily conceal their
account if they require privacy from public visibility. This feature allows you to continue browsing other
profiles
while maintaining a discreet online presence
Video Chat & Call in-app 5
SmokeWithMe offers integrated calling and video functionalities, which minimize the necessity for users to share
personal information, such as phone numbers or email addresses, until they feel adequately prepared and
comfortable. The video chat feature further allows users to authenticate the identities of their connections,
enhancing the overall trust and security within the platform.
In-App Support Chat
At SmokeWithMe, we’re passionate about creating a welcoming and supportive community through our live
support chats! We believe that feeling heard and understood is essential. Our dedicated team is here to guide and
assist you on a variety of topics. Whether you’re looking for advice, want to share your thoughts, or just need
someone to talk to, our trained support staff is always ready to help you feel connected and empowered. You’re not
alone—let’s navigate this journey together!
We have prohibited the following items on SmokeWithMe. 6
Body Shaming & Hate Speech Policy
SmokeWithMe implements a stringent policy prohibiting body shaming, which clearly bans derogatory remarks
pertaining to an individual's appearance, body shape, size, or health. This encompasses language that may be
classified as fat-phobic, ableist, racist, colorist, homophobic, or transphobic. Our moderators are prepared to
provide resources aimed at educating individuals on modifying their behavior.
Individuals who encounter body shaming within the application are strongly encouraged to utilize the ‘report’
feature to document their experience. This action will escalate the matter to our moderation team, which will
conduct a thorough investigation of the report and take appropriate measures against the user exhibiting abusive
behavior.
Sexual Harassment
SmokeWithMe categorizes sexual harassment as any unwanted or unwelcome sexual behavior between members.
This encompasses, but is not limited to, initiating conversations with sexual content, making unsolicited sexual
advances or comments, transmitting unwanted sexual imagery, attempting to engage in virtual sexual interactions
without consent, and any form of harassment that occurs outside the SmokeWithMe platform
7Things That Can Get You Kicked Off SmokeWithMe
X Language or imagery that could be perceived as offensive or
that has the
potential to harass,
disturb,
embarrass,
or annoy individuals should be avoided.
X Any sexual content or behavior that is deemed unwanted or
unwelcome among members.
X The display of obscene, pornographic, or violent imagery is
expressly forbidden. Additionally, any form of
abusive, insulting, or threatening behavior is strictly prohibited.
X Misrepresenting one's age or location, as well as sharing
images that obscure one's face or are subject to
extensive editing, is unadvisable.
X Promotion or solicitation for commercial purposes outside of
our advertising functions or business promotion in
app.
X Multiple or shared accounts
X Promoting hatred and contempt against any marginalized
groups.
X Encouraging any illegal activity.
X The transmission of any content that contains spyware,
adware,
viruses, corrupt files, or any other type of
malicious code is strictly prohibited.
X Defamatory or libelous statements.
X Content that is harmful
X Impersonating any other person, or falsely stating your
name.8
Meeting up IRL
- Schedule a voice or video call.
- Examine their social media accounts for updates and information.
- Inform someone you trust about your plans, including where you’re going, who your date is, and when you
expect to return home.
- Kindly arrange for your own transportation.
- When selecting a location, take the initiative and always choose a public place to meet.
- Reduce your alcohol consumption.
- Think about organizing a group hangout.
- Understand your boundaries and don't feel compelled to change them.
- Trust your instincts. It's perfectly acceptable to cancel a date if you have doubts or feel uncomfortable.
Just
remember to communicate your feelings first.9
How to Stay Safe from Scams
Scams are a reality, so it’s important to be cautious about what information you share—even if you feel you
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trust the person you’ve connected with. Here are some tips to help you stay alert and protect yourself from
potential scams.
Look out for these signs:
- They ask you for money.
- They want to move away from SmokeWithMe quickly.
- They send you suspicious or unfamiliar links.
- They ask a lot of personal questions but avoid answering yours.
- It feels like they could be a catfish.
If you suspect someone is trying to scam you, here’s how to block and report them:
- Never share these details:
- Passwords to your accounts.
- Card details, including your PIN.
- Last name.
- Home address.
- Work address.
- Email address.
Digital Consent11
Consent is defined as an explicit and enthusiastic agreement to a specific intimate or sexual request. In order
to
attain such affirmative consent, it is essential to inquire whether the other individual desires to engage in the
proposed intimate or sexual behavior. At SmokeWithMe, the transmission of any form of sexual content without
prior consent is strictly prohibited and may result in the termination of the account.
The importance of obtaining consent cannot be overstated. Sending unsolicited explicit images or sexual messages,
attempting virtual sexual interactions, or disseminating sexually suggestive emojis or GIFs without the consent of
the recipient can lead to feelings of discomfort, violation, or distress. It is crucial to recognize that consent
must
be
sought even if prior intimate interactions have occurred, as an individual’s willingness to engage intimately may
fluctuate on a daily or monthly basis
In conclusion, it is imperative to always seek permission before proceeding with any intimate or sexual exchange.
How to Keep Your Information Safe on SomeWithMe
While SmokeWithMe makes every effort to protect our members, there are straightforward steps our community
can take to help maintain their personal data privacy
Conduct a thorough review of your profile:It is essential to reassess your
photographs to ensure
they do not
unintentionally disclose personal information, such as your home or business address.
Caution when sharing personal information.Individuals should refrain from
disclosing their email addresses,
home addresses, telephone numbers, or account passwords to individuals they have recently established contact
with.
Don’t reuse passwords:Creating a distinct and robust password for each of
your accounts is essential for
safeguarding your personal information. Each password acts as a formidable shield against potential breaches, so
choosing one that is both unique and complex ensures that your online presence remains secure.
Don’t disclose financial details:Refusing any financial information to a
new match on SmokeWithMe is
imperative. Specifically, do not share details such as credit card numbers, PayPal, CashApp, or Venmo account
information, as well as your Personal Identification Number (PIN) or any other banking details.
Take your time!Connecting with someone special is wonderful, so enjoy the
journey at your own pace. There's no
need to rush into leaving the app or sharing your phone number—focus on building that connection when it feels
just right for you!
Use Invisible Mode:Invisible Mode is a feature available with SmokeWithMe
Premium. It only shows your
profile to users you have swiped right on the profile to users you have swiped right on.12
Trust your instincts.It is essential to trust your instincts when engaging
with potential matches or profiles. If a
situation feels inappropriate or unreliable, you have the option to unmatch or block and report the individual.
There
is no obligation to maintain a conversation, particularly if you perceive that someone is attempting to solicit
personal information from you.
We are excited to enhance the emotional and physical safety of our
members because we truly believe that meaningful social connections
are vital for a happy, fulfilling life! Our mission is to empower our
members to build these connections. We know dating can feel
challenging at times, especially when reaching out to someone new on
our safety support team. With our focus on Member Safety, each
decision and product improvement is crafted with you in mind, ensuring
you feel valued, respected, and cared for. We invite you to explore our
thoughtful safety features, tools, and resources, all designed with your
happiness and wellbeing at heart!1